We all get into marriage for different reasons and aims, but one thing should always ring in our mind whatever the reason you got into marriage. That marriage is a lifetime commitment, and its not anything to do trial and error practicals.
Those who are in marriages will tell you that its not a bed of roses, neither is it a smooth ride. It is a commitment that most of the times calls for humility and a lot of critical thinking. Without these, some people find themselves in a broken marriage without their knowledge. But here are some few points that could help you know your marriage is not on the right track.
1. Withdraw of basic rights.
If you notice your partner has started withdrawing services you can call your rights, something that previously was not a problem, then its a point to note.
2. Anger
Anger will follow because sometimes you will ask for your rights, or for things to be done the way they should. Anger will not just appear and disappear. It will be constant and lead to other signs.
3. Complaints
After the withdraw, anger, then complaints will be the topic. You complain of denial, your partner will complaining about your requests of demands, and it will be a series of such until you can fix it.
4. Depression
This will now lead to feelings of loneliness, betrayal, rejection, and not belonging. The feelings will make you look for company where it cant be found. From friends, alcohol, drugs, such thing, and finally, it will either lead to violence, murder or suicide.
Guard yourself and the wellness of your marriage. Its your responsibility to make sure you are always in good terms with your spouse. It will save you the stress. If at a certain point you find yourself in a situation above, either talk to someone you trust, of seek professional counseling. It helps save families and lives.
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